2016: The Year of Great Adventures

2016 has been one of the most-incredible and memorable years for me in many ways. If I slice the whole 2016 and metaphorically link my life, I would say, Half adventures, half adversities, half turnings, half twists filled with both bitter and better experiences. Although 2016 has been a great year, full of changes, events and incredible projects, shaping my career more clearly, “adventure” has become one of the major parts that taught and gave me new perspective on life and world. I saw so much things in this year within my country Nepal and outside. From the sorrow of Sindhupalchok to Development of DC, from the magnificence of Mongolia to serenity of Spain, all the great things came into my life making me more assertive to see the world through inner eyes.

A Year-long Journey with Asia Foundation: A Platform for Emerging Leaders of Asia

We are at the end of this year. 2016 is now about to wave good-bye to us. This has been incredible time for me in many ways, among which today I am going to share a really fantastic year-long journey with Asia Foundation with 12 most-dynamic emerging stars of Asia.

In fact, early in this year, my life took a very important turning when I received an E-mail from Asia Foundation stating that I got selected as a fellow in the Asia Foundation Development Fellows program 2016 from the very competitive pools of applicants. The news was undoubtedly exciting to me and my family, yet it was equally challenging as it definitely added more responsibilities in my shulder for the people and societies I was working for from dawn till dusk in Nepal.

The year-long fellowship was full of learnings, sharings and gaining different experiences and exposures. The moments I spent with 12 dynamic emerging leaders across the different Asian Countries, who are passionately working  to shape the future of Asia, gave me more energy and hopes that will never fade from my mind.

My Action for Access: Does my blindness matter for my independent travel?

Over the two years, I got chance to travel to many countries learning and sharing many things, advocating and studying the practice of “accessibility”  and disability rights. During my quest and adventures, I flew with many airlines, and all of them treated me well and assisted to my solo travel with equality and fair treatment. However, in my most-recent travel case, I had to face severe hardship with the people and the system of Biman Bangladesh airlines.

Unfolding my story, I got an invitation to come to Bangladesh for a conference as a special guest. Although I was working hard in Nepal with many projects and campaigns, I was not pretty sure whether I was accepting the invitation and making my way to Bangladesh or not. In early 2014, I got to see Bangladesh when I cultivated the ever-lasting friendship with many individuals, dove into Bangali culture and society. Having remembered all those great memories of warmth and hospitality that Bangladeshi friends exhibited towards me, ultimately, putting my works aside, I decided to get ready for the trip to Bangladesh for few days.

Everything worked out well for me, I got visa, I packed up everything. The final step I needed to do was to purchase plane ticket for the round trip.

Just the day before I was intending to fly, in the morning, my brain was about to explode when I heard from my travel agent that Biman Bangladesh Airlines rejected my flight-booking to Bangladesh via their aircraft. The reason was simply groundless and nonsense. They argued that I wouldn’t be allowed to fly unless I would bring someone sighted or guide-dog. After hearing this, I straightly went to the office of Biman Bangladesh and told everything to the front-desk attendant. She was utterly unaware of my case yet she treated me well. She was positive towards my case and led me to the country manager . I, my brother and a friend of mine saw the country manager, Mr. Mohammed Amrul Ques.  I introduced briefly about me, my works and my adventures to him, and also I told him why I was intending to go to Bangladesh. I asked him why Biman Bangladesh rejected my booking and put some conditions which were totally out of the ground. He said that he would love to help and he would treat passengers with all kinds with equality. However, he repeated the same argument that the blind passenger must be accompanied by a sighted person or guiding-dog. He, then, contacted Dhaka head office and airport. He clearly told me that in the manuals of their airlines, the rules have been coded that the passengers who are blind must be accompanied by someone or have guide-dog with them to assist. I found these two conditions were flatly discriminatory that was against our dignity and right to travel. “Bringing sighted companion for whom paying extra ticket out of my pocket is almost impossible, and having guide-dog in the context of Nepal is not applicable.” I tried to convince him with this arguments and also told him about my travel history and the right-based support that other airlines provided me in my previous travels.

After the long conversation, he agreed to let me book my flight and also informed me that he would be flying on the same day with the same flight to Bangladesh. He said to me that he would assist me in the flight. I was satisfied with his positivity, but still not satisified with the system and the conditions of Biman Bangladesh airlines. He was willing to assist himself only because he was flying with the same flight on the same date, but what would happen if he was not flying? Would he be still willing to let me book the flight? It was my serious concern, and I lastly repeated my argument that the policy of the airlines should be changed in any case.

I agree that the country manager was positive, however my struggle was neither against him nor with the staffs of Biman Bangladesh. My concern was with the discriminatory policy of Biman Bangladesh and against their unfair system which would not recognize the right of persons with disabilities to travel independently.

As a youth and disability rights activist, I realized that I had two choices: either to act and move my next step against their unfair policy or just to give up, but ultimately chose the first option. I came back home, wrote a post in facebook and also wrote the E-mail to Biman Bangladesh’s higher authority. My Facebook post got huge public support with hundreds of comments and shares which I thought would be effective to pressurize the decision-makers of Biman Bangladesh to change their discriminatory policy for the passengers with special needs.

I was not talking about charity, I was not asking for their pity either, but I just wanted to tell them about  our right to the same freedom of travel that other people without disabilities would enjoy.

Now, the story is still unfinished. On the day of my flight, At the airport, while I was trying to check in, the staffs at counters asked me if anyone was travelling with me. When I said “no”, they tried to stop me saying their airline’s policy and insisting the same thing that was told to me previous day. I, then, told them that I had already talked to the country manager and he would assist me, they were still treating me very rudely. Ultimately after a while, they arranged wheelchair for me to escort up to the aircraft.

Later in the waiting area, I met their station manager and later the country manager appeared, apologized and assured that the blind passengers in future would not face the same problem and harsh treatment from them. They also asked me to delete the facebook post that I wrote the previous day assuring me that they would welcome blind passengers in their service and they will treat and assist the travelers with special needs in future. I traveled together

with country manager who assisted me throughout my journey and held a great conversation on how they could better help the passengers with disabilities

in future. He told me that in his 30 years of service experience in Biman Bangladesh working in many countries, he had never faced this sort of case before.

He committed to make the service of Biman Bangladesh accessible for all. He escorted me in the Dhaka Airport up to the exit. When I met the person who was there to pick me up, I said good-bye to the manager.

Upon receiving such positive responses and commitment to take action for equal access, I deleted my facebook post as a sign of gratitude to their initiation.

This is not the end of the story and the struggle. That day, the country manager travelled with me and offered the great assistance by his heart, but my question is with the unfair policy of Biman Bangladesh: how will they make sure that the passengers like me who can’t see or who have some kind of disability will receive fair treatment and be assisted and allowed to travel via their aircraft? Obviously the country manager has positive heart, who invited me in his office once I would return to Kathmandu, but my concern is that just like this time in future, he won’t always be available personally to assist other passengers with disabilities every time who might travel to Bangladesh via Biman Bangladesh, right? So, what about the discriminatory policy of this airlines which has negative perception towards blind/visually-impaired?

If we don’t ask for our rights, the answer is always “no”. I wish somebody from Biman Bangladesh would read my post, understand the rights of persons with disabilities and change their discriminatory policy while treating blind/visually-impaired passengers like me. This is indeed a very unfair policy of Biman Bangladesh that has to be changed soonest the possible.

If the business companies like Biman Bangladesh do not consider us as their valued clients, then we will be compelled to take another step to claim our rights. We should act for the fact and fight for the rights, that’s all what I believe.

I am raising the voice on this issue in the favor of justice not because I faced hardship with this airlines but because I felt our rights were taken away by the unfair system of Biman Bangladesh. I raised and spoke up about this issue not only for me but for the future travelers with visual impairments or other kinds of disabilities who might want to travel to Bangladesh via their aircrafts. I really want to see the change in such unfair system. Independent traveling is our right, which should be recognized and respected and offered assistance whenever persons with disabilities would need!

A Historical journey to United States: an adventure in the New World!

“What other can see, I can feel that! My inability to see the things through my physical eyes does not mean the full-stop of my existence! I'd love to go, explore, feel and enjoy the beauty of Nature, the freedom of barrier-free navigation and the power of adventure all around!"

In the cold February days, Exploring the big cities and many other American sites all alone in the blustery weather, struggling with extreme cold, I spent a month in United States from 7 February till 7 March 2016. Although it was my second visit to the United States, it turned out to be totally a series of new and unique experiences for me to enjoy the beauty of American world.

exploring America was like the adventure in the “new world”! America is the “new world” for me in many ways! Things are pretty different than what I do experience in Nepal in terms of accessibility, universal access, transportation system, people’s lives, cultures and many more.

As a matter of fact, America is the home of those who have migrated from all over the world. One can find the cultural diversity and heterogeneity everywhere in the United States. The super-managed development ratio, consideration on the needs of people with disabilities, senior citizens, children and other segments of societies and application of the strategies and implementation of the propublic plans and policies are the most-notable aspect of United States that I admire with my open-heart.

During my stay and exploration in America, primarily, I did my best to make people better understand the situation of Nepal and Nepali after the devastating earthquake. I not only attended a couple of conferences and different meetings and discussion regarding our post-earthquake campaigns, but also I had a self-exploratory trip to different cities all alone where I met amazing people from different walks of life, gave a series of motivational talks and shared my insights and vision for the rebuilding process of Nepal.

Indeed, prior coming to America, I and the team were unceasingly having our post-earthquake campaigns in Nepal, by which Many months, we dedicated to volunteer in the remotest hard-hit areas rattled by devastating earthquake of April 2015, I saw many suffering, witnessed the pathetic stories of people about losing their families and  homes, being injured getting trapped in the rubble etc etc. The wounds of earthquake and the bitter consequences that Nepali were going through was always in my mind. Hence I was firmly determined to do more things for Nepal taking the best use of my adventure in America, and now I think that I was successful to do my best in putting enough efforts to help people understand and act for the rebuilding process of Nepal.

Similarly, another mission of my America adventure was to purchase the independent living tools and adaptive applications as well as mobility aids for the persons with disabilities who got affected from earthquake! So with the self-directed policy, “spend less and do more for Nepal”, I bought assistive appliances such as white canes, magnifiers including children’s games,  toys and the useful stuffs to donate for earthquake victims in Nepal.

Most-importantly, as earthquake made large number of people including the victims living with disabilities massively dependent, my mission was to seek partnership, collaboration  and networking support for the earthquake victims in making them independent through entrepreneurship development. So I clearly put forward the issues and the ways to accomplish the proposed ideas with the people whom I met there. To achieve those goals, I got chance to attend a couple of conferences in the World Bank, held the meeting at National Federation of the blind Washington DC Chapter, met the chairperson of World Bank Youth Group and wonderful American youth activists, change-makers and Leaders who listened my ideas with great interest. In fact, it was like a great networking opportunity for me to co-ordinate more things for the rebuilding process of Nepal.

In addition to the things above, I cultivated the ever-lasting friendship with so many wonderful souls, that I believe, will last forever. And also, I met most of my friends whom I really desired to see. Despite my initial struggle to adjust myself with time-difference, food difference and weather difference, the entire exploration  of East coast turned out to be a memorable momentum that I will miss forever. I visited Washington DC, Virginia, New York City, Buffalo city, Maryland, Boston  and many more sites solo in the blustery weather. Walking in the snow, enjoying the beauty of brisk-walking with friends, meeting some relative and hanging out with them, visiting different organizations including Perkins School for the blind, and getting to know American culture and society more closely were really exciting things for me. The exploration of Great Falls, Inner Harvor, Central Park of New York, Charles-River site of Boston and so many awesome natural sites fascinated me a lot. More than that The powerful Sound that I heard In Niagara Falls was super-amazing that gave me lots of strength that I enjoyed the real beauty by hearing the sound and feeling the entire atmosphere by heart.

Besides the formal and regular things, now, let me share some of the interesting aspects of my America adventure.

During my stay in US, I found some extremely surprising things to me: may be I was like the child, but those things were really intriguing to me!

1.      As my journey was in winter, everytime I went to restaurant, the waiter brought the glass of water filled with ices. The question often came to my mind: Why do they put lots of ices on the water since it was already so cold outside? (Unknown answer by this time)

2.      Since America bring lots of people from developing countries in the names of DV (Diversity Visa/Lottery), exchange programs and  miscellaneous opportunities, but why are they not taking care of their own citizens? This point here I am raising because I faced too many homeless people in the streets of Washington DC who were shouting to me for foodd and money. I was little scared with them sometimes while walking and exploring my ways around.

3.      Punctuality is one of the chief characteristics of developed countries like United States, however, I experienced unbelievable delay with buses in America. I was intending to go to Welmington DE from Washington DC. So I took the ticket which said, the bus would leave at 2 PM. I and my friend, Jaleh Andria, waited until 4 PM just standing and talking outside hoping for the bus to come and get on. People did not say exact reason, but ultimately we cancelled our ticket and trip for that day. Next time also the bus delayed for an hour. I did not understand why mega-buses delay so much in United States.

4.      I found the front doors in the buildings are so heavy in Amreica. I wonder why doors are so heavy there! Sometimes, I could not pull or push as it needed a lot of energy, haha.

Despite the above stated interesting and surprising facts, questions and concerns of my observation, I really spent such a wonderful time in United States, and learned a great deal of life and adventure as well.

I was not only visiting the different places and gaining surprising experiences, but at the same time, I was also making a close-obsdrvation on American accessibility, universal access and universal design. Having observed the best practice of “accessibility and Universal Design”, I was blown away really. Things were pretty accessible everywhere. I did not feel that I was not able to see. The systm and the rules were so effective and disabled-friendly that we need to learn so much things from America while applying accessibility guidelines and its principles in the developing countries like Nepal.

Well, we can't make Nepal like America overnight, but with patience, persistence and perseverance, we can definitely localize our system and infrastructures

in the way to make the things accessible, inclusive and barrier-free for all! Our future lies in our hands! Let's go together, let's grow together! This is the message and the central theme of my America adventure!

"Break in the Blog": Where and Why was I Lost?

As I go to new places and meet up people, I often begin to introduce who I am and  what I do. Along with my identity  in youth and disability-rights activism, social campaigning, media and technology, I mention myself as a blogger! But my blogging world is not frequent these days, why? Many people might have thought about it, right?

Well, this is indeed a genuine concern. Over the few months, I was not able to come back and write to my blog. Things turned extremely hectic, and I had to be far away from the frequent use of technology. Our post-earthquake campaigns brought me to so amny remotest places where I had never been where the access of the internet was utterely impossible. The massive power-cut problem, more focus towards relief, rehabilitation and recovery works for the earthquake victims kept me extremely busy that I merely could use internet for the personal/professional communications: E-mailing and internet browsing!

Despite the gap and break in the blogging world, I have now back here with much enthusiasm to disseminate more updates of my life, works and our post-earthquake activities. Also, I recently came back from a month-long adventure in United States filled with new insights, ideas and concepts that I really would love to share.

Anyways, with the firm promise to make my blog up-to-date, I’d like to let you know that the more interesting stuffs are on the way, which I can’t wait to tell and share with you all!